Now as he reasoned about righteousness, self-control, and the judgment to come, Felix was afraid and answered, “Go away for now; when I have a convenient time I will call for you.”” (Acts 24:25, NKJV)
Mastery over self is a mark spiritual and emotional maturity. Self-control is generated by living according to the Spirit-revealed word (Gal. 5:22-23). Self-control is the ability to both restrain oneself from sin and to exercise discipline over one’s spirit so as to be faithful to the Lord. Our eternal destiny depends, in part, on whether or not we exercise self-control in all things (1 Cor. 9:25-27). Those “without self-control” love themselves and sinful pleasures instead of loving God. Like Felix in today’s verse, they are lost in their sins (2 Tim. 3:1-4). On the other hand, Christians are exhorted to “be self-controlled”, remembering that “the end of all things is at hand” (1 Pet. 4:7, ESV). Bring yourself under the control of Christ. Live by faith and do His will (Gal. 2:20). Your moral and spiritual life is shaped by whether you use or refuse self-control.