Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble.” (1 Peter 5:5, NKJV)
Living in God’s grace does not give Christians a license to have arrogant attitudes, words and deeds toward one another. There ought to be a symbiotic relationship between younger and older Christians; interdependent, instead of independent, of each other. In another context, Paul said, “For none of us lives to himself, and no one dies to himself” (Rom. 14:7). We need each other. Therefore, proper respect and regard ought to be shown by all. Younger saints should yield to their elders out of respect and consideration. An older Christians should not discount and despise a fellow saint simply due to their youth. We are yield to one another out of humility. After all, God will not receive the proud; He favors the humble. Commit yourself to developing a humble attitude. Be humble by using kind words and respectful actions toward your brethren in Christ.
15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but he who heeds counsel is wise. 16 A fool’s wrath is known at once, but a prudent man covers shame. (Proverbs 12:15-16)
The ability to accept and follow advice from others is a mark of humility. Conversely, the fool pridefully refuses counsel; he is right, and that settles it. The prideful rejection of godly counsel sets the stage for an uncontrolled temper to explode when it is challenged. The remedy for a fool’s wrath includes the wisdom to acknowledge one’s need for help and guidance in life. Above all else, we must humble ourselves to accept God’s counsel, for “the way of man is not in himself” (Jer. 10:23). Cover the shame of wrath by humbly accepting and following the wisdom from above, the word of God.00:05
5 Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, 6 who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, 7 but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. (Philippians 2:5-8)
The humility of Christ Jesus prompted his full submission to the Father’s will in order to accomplish human redemption. Although Jesus did not divest himself of his deity to become human, he did leave the glorious splendor of deity when he became flesh (see Jno. 17:5; Matt. 17:2). He humbled himself still more by dying on the cross. Jesus sacrificed heaven’s glory, submitted himself fully to the Father’s will and steadfastly obeyed even unto death. We are called upon to have the same mind of humility Jesus had. Live for God and not yourself. Sacrifice your self-interests to serve others. Steadfastly maintain humility and the Lord will lift you up (Jas. 4:10).
13 You call Me Teacher and Lord, and you say well, for so I am. 14 If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. 15 For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. 16 Most assuredly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master; nor is he who is sent greater than he who sent him. 17 If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them. (John 13:13-17)
Jesus teaches by His words and by His examples. Washing His apostles’ feet was a stirring lesson on humble service, given precisely when they were bickering among themselves who was greatest (Lk. 22:24). Here is another crucial lesson: Knowing plus doing the Lord’s will is blessed, while knowing yet failing to do His will is not blessed. It is not enough to say you know God’s will; He wants you to also do His will. When you know and do God’s will you show yourself to be a follower of Jesus.