Now the Lord came and stood and called as at other times, “Samuel! Samuel!” And Samuel answered, “Speak, for Your servant hears.” (1 Samuel 3:10)
God no longer speaks to us directly like He did to the boy Samuel. But rest assured, God has spoken to us “by His Son” (Heb. 1:1-2). Young Samuel sets an example of readiness before God, both to listen to what He said and to be His servant. To be a servant of God you must listen to God’s word. You will need a humble, willing heart to listen to God’s word with an ear to obey Him. To be a servant of God means not only hearing what His word says, but also doing what He says. Jesus rebuked people who called His “Lord, Lord” while refusing to do the things He said (Lk. 6:46). Let us follow Samuel’s example and listen to God’s word by reading the Scriptures. And then, like Samuel, be God’s servant by doing what His word says (Matt. 7:21).
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. (Ephesians 5:22–24)
There is no greater expression of love than Christ’s love for His church. His sacrificial death on the cross is the model for how husbands must love their wives (Eph. 5:25). At the same time, the church’s loving devotion and submission to the Savior is the wife’s model for yielding to the leadership of her husband. The church’s role is not to lead Christ, but to follow His leadership. There must be a leader in a marriage, and God has given that role to the husband. Wives are to yield to the leadership of their husbands just like the church does to Christ. Marriage thrive when husbands are servant-leaders (like Christ). Marriages flourish when wives are devoted helpers who respect their husbands and yield to their leadership (Eph. 5:33). God’s plan for a successful marriage works!
13 You call Me Teacher and Lord, and you say well, for so I am. 14 If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet. 15 For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. 16 Most assuredly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master; nor is he who is sent greater than he who sent him. 17 If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them. (John 13:13-17)
Jesus teaches by His words and by His examples. Washing His apostles’ feet was a stirring lesson on humble service, given precisely when they were bickering among themselves who was greatest (Lk. 22:24). Here is another crucial lesson: Knowing plus doing the Lord’s will is blessed, while knowing yet failing to do His will is not blessed. It is not enough to say you know God’s will; He wants you to also do His will. When you know and do God’s will you show yourself to be a follower of Jesus.